It's time to shake it up! Question? I was wondering what your thoughts might be? Do you think everybody cheats and lies to their spouse? I have to say from my perspective it does seem like sometime that everyone is doing it! But in reality not everyone does. Some people are as honest as the day is long and some folks lie and cheat more often then they change their underwear. I will say that the majority of the time if my clients gut is telling them that their spouse is cheating I find it to be accurate. Sad but true. The worst part of your spouse cheating on you is the breakdown of the trust that has taken years to build and is broken in less than 30 seconds. Please don't kid yourself even if your spouse does not have the physical evidence in front of them they usually know inside. When you change your behavior or routine your spouse will notice this at some point usually sooner rather than later even if they don't say anything to you. A helpful hint for you-If you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you and you want to know for sure don't tell your spouse of your suspicions if you are going to hire a private investigator! Reason why, if your spouse knows that you suspect him/her of cheating they will become more careful and the end result for you is it will end up costing you more money because it will take longer to catch them and wrap up your case. As a professional investigator I like very much to obtain your evidence as quickly and as cost effectively as possible. Sometimes we think that we can just confront them and they will fess up but that is not the norm they normally just deny, deny, deny. They usually think they are too smart to get caught. I have seen many of my subjects through the year believe this and then they are shocked when they have been caught and my client puts the photographic evidence in front of them. So if you think your spouse is cheating on you make up your mind what you want to do and realize that it is your life too. And who knows maybe the suspicious behavior might turn out to be nothing and you can put your mind at ease and the trust between you and your spouse will be stronger than ever. Remember the evidence collected by your private investigator belongs to you so therefore you make the decision as to what you will do with your evidence. Thanks for stopping by from your trusted PI.